#i dont have anything against crochet

[lanibgoode]

youtube sucks so bad it can't even tell the difference between knitting and crochet

it consistently recommends me crochet videos that have "crochet" in the title in spite of me never clicking any of them, and in fact only watching ones that have "knit" or "knitting" in the titles. it in fact recommends me more crochet videos than knitting at this point. its gotten so bad i've started telling it to never recommend these channels to try to get it to stop

but it all starts up again the moment i watch a new knitting video to remind myself how to do a specific cast on or a stitch or whatever.

[july-19th-club]

problem im not equipped to handle socially: neighbor i barely know keeps texting me asking me to go to a rodeo or come over and visit (as in, neighbor would come to MY house) and while i have nothing against this neighbor i also have no interest in hanging out. but i dont know how to SAY no i dont want to hang out with you sorry without being rude. so i just keep ignoring the texts and the neighbor keeps texting and i know that's the wrong way to do it but if i text the neighbor then they will REPLY and i will have to carry on a conversation with them

[oryoucouldhavemine]

TOH Headcanon Dump Post

(Mostly the De-lights because i write them the most lmao)

Hunter:

Autistic

surprisingly tall but like in a lanky "towers over everyone" way except he has terrible posture

gets overwhelmed with sound, light, people, basically everything if it was unexpected he's probably overwhelmed

Darius is his dad but Raine and Eberwolf are like, honorary parents at this time. Eda and Camila are more like the really close aunts he always visits to me, idk i dont see Eda being a parental figure that works for him (Luz however that is her daughter fr fr)

has lots of scars from Belos trying to "teach him a lesson" about bravery and such and Hunter doesnt think anything about it until hes like changing and Darius does a drama queen dramamgic gasp, hand over chest while leaning against a wall for support

HATES tight clothing, its too restricting he enjoys oversized and loose clothes. in the human world, luz introduces him to skirts and hunter is like "WHY WOULD ANYONE NOT WEAR A SKIRT THEYRE AMAZING"

he also likes purses he thinks theyve gotta be magical or something

touch-starved but has loving friends and family who are here to help him through it

discovers fire trucks and engines in the human world and despises the boiling isles for NOT HAVING THEN WHY DONT THEY HAVE THEM THEYRE SO COOL????

Luz

ADHD + genderqueer (p sure both are canon)

SHE WOULD LOVE NEO/XENO PRONOUNS theyd have sm fun with chosing ones

Loves to dress masc and fem and soemtimes combine them in asburd ways but she always surprisingly makes the outfit work

wants a guinea pig farm. no, NEEDS a guinea pig farm. She wants to name them all after her favourite book characters and sew them tiny outfits to match she would KILL a man for a guinea pig farm

considera hunter her older brother and looks up to him a lot

LOVES her gf would also kill a man for her she is the light of her life. luz tries to do grand romantic cheesy gestures like writing amity poems or getting her a massive bouquet of flowers but something ALWAYS goes wrong (amity loves all the gestures regardless)

luz's favourite colour is purple (because of amity ofc)

she HAS to sleep either sprawled out taking up every inch of the bed possible or curled up and swadled like a little baby there is no inbetween

very tactile if luz isnt hugging someone there might me something wrong

im cutting this short i could make fifty posts about luz hcs alone

Amity

autistic + sapphic

npw that shes free from her mom, she LOVES to be imperfect, she gets happy whenever she fails a test or a spell because shes ALOWED to be imperfect now

she and hunter did NOT get along at first like even post-s3 they didnt mesh well but they both care for Luz they had to get over it (and now theyre practically ever apart)

admired lillith even more now, she thinks lillith is like, THE COOLEST person in the world but feels akward telling her

has poor circulation so she gets cold really easily

whenever shes stressed or worried, shell pull at two strands of her hair next to her face and like twirl or pull on them to ground herself

Gus

unlabelled he/they

brags about having gone to the human realm to anyone who will listen

considers himself an expert on human things despite barely actually knowing anything human

loves playing pranks but is literally terrible at them but everyone humors him and acts surprised (he knows theyre acting)

once took a human SAT just to see if he could and got a higher score than Camila got on hers and she calls him Boy Genius for it

like in Flyer Derby, hes really good at a lot of sports but he plays untraditionally. hes always underestimated by the other team but then ends up scoring all the winning points

hes a silly little guy love him

Willow

her comfort person is hunter, she feels strong all the time but it weighs on her and hunter makes her feel strong even at her weakest moments

she likes to knot and crochet! she picked it up in the human world and she finds it so calming and fun except it took her a bit before she actually got the hang of it (she made like five sweaters that had three arms but in her defense!!! she knows a lot of creatures and beings with three arms!!!)

works out! not necessarily to get strong but because working out makes her feel accomplished

amity has been trying out new hairstyles and Willow loves being Amity's pracitce head. You can barely ever find willow without some sort of fancy braid or bun hairstyle nowadays

she wants a horse. shes not actually sure what a horse IS but she wants one

super sweet to every new person she meets until they mess with her friends then she is the scariest person alive

Darius

OCD + gay

he discovers what drag queens are and becomes obsessed

"a place for everything and everything in its place" hehas harsh rules about what does where and gets easily upset if his system is ruined

he DESPISES "if you hate messes so much whyd you pick the messiest magic to learn" comments because how DARE you insinuate that abomination matter (PART OF WHAT HE IS!) is ANYTHING like mud its actually very disrespectful of you to think so he says

he and alador had a falling out in their later years of school and to cover up the hurt, darius will argue and tease him but deep down he really just misses him

at the start of him trying to care for hunter, he refuses to admit that he is like a father to him. anytime eda or raine call him a dad, he'll go out of his way to try and prove hes NOT (cut to five months layer when hes legally adopted hunter and they meecilessly tesse him)

acts like eberwolf is the biggest inconvience hes ever met but would kill anyone who tries to harm them (and hed rather die than tell them that)

does things in threes, he doesnt even notice he does it at this point but he'll like rub his hands together three times, tie his hair up with three twists, eat three waffles for breakfast, and when smth isnt in threes it feels verry OFF to him

Alador

queer + autistic

very fixated on his work, he needs to be constantly creating and if he isnt creating then hes falling behind and if hes falling behind its the end of the world

doesnt know how to properly show affection, his parents had been pretty strict and neglectful so he doesnt know how to properly show his kids that he loves and cares for them

NOT a tactile person at all. don't touch him and DEFINTELY dont touch him without permission. he has very few people who are exceptions (his kids and Darius) and even then there are limits

hates the feeling of showering so hes a bigger bath person despite darius telling him thats not an effective way to get clean

he has like eighty pairs of the exact same outfit because its the only texture he can stand

darius and his falling out was due to his parents telling him darius was dragging him down and he itched him in an attempt to make his parents proud. he deeply regrets his choice everyday (they fix their shit eventually)

he DOES have a favourite kid but he refuses to tell them such

Edric

bisexual + autistic + transmasc

this man gets NO BITCHES none zero trying to find a partner is borderline IMPOSSIBLE for some unknown reason

he runs on a schedule and if something breaks the schedule no matter how small it can ruin his whole day

vrry open with his emotions. he will tell you right away if youre bothering him or did something to upset him

WHY THE HELL IS SCHOOL SO HARD he despises english because why are all answers right and wrong he loves math because there is only one right answer but its still a tricky subject for him

dinosaurs

his biggest fear is dying alone he hates being alone its the worst thing ever

WHY IS MAGIC TRICKY AS WELL WHY IS EVERYTHING SO HARD? hes getting better though and hes really good at beastkeeping

clingy emotionally and physically he needs the constant reassurance that people are there and care for him and hes close to his sister and tends to stick to her like glue

Emira

bisexual + AuDHD + transfem

when she and edric were younger and realised they were both trans they just switched names and clothes and it took ten years for their parents to notice the switch

RSD [Rejection Senstive Dysphoria] she hates that she has it because someone can say smth as simple as "sorry i cant make it my grandma died" and she'll start thinking of a million different reasons why that person actually just hates her (shes communicated this with her siblings though and they do their best to commincate clearly back with her that no they dont hate her at all)

SO MANY BITCHES people fall at her feet they swoon when she walks by but NONE of them are her type its terrible!!!!

loves her little sister but doesnt know how to show her love through any other way outside merciless teasing

she loves her brother, she does, she just wants to be her own person outside him, to be able to turn around and not see him two feet behind her

loves english and the fact you can make any wrong answer right with enough arguing and debate. math is her least favourite subject WHY THE HELL IS IT SO HARD

has years of detention stacked up but has not attended a single day (she got suspended for a week because of it and was just like YAYYY FREE VACATION!)

will sometimes just sit in her dads workshop while he works and watch in silence because she likes hanging out with people but knows alador cant focus with sound. its both of their favourite times

Raine

lesbian + nonbinary

post-s3 runs a music therapy group where they teach people how to play instruments or how listening to music can greatly help their mental health

has been in love with eda since their breakup, they never stopped loving her and would watch from the sidelines with terror as wanted signs got hung up around the BI for years

doesnt mind dressing fem or masc but prefers the more androgynous outfits

has watched hunter from the sidelines and tried to protect them from a distance but could only do so much. post-HM raine goes out of their way to make sure hunter is safe

sees luz as a sort of step daughter and then promptly panics over that realisation for a whole day

gets flustered really easily like why is everything so embarrassing what the hell

very agile, can do backflips and stuff

Eberwolf

Unlabelled + he/they

COULD JOT STAND DARIUS AT FIRST darius and eber did NOT get along in their early years of being covenheads but then eventually learned they were both rebels and got closer now theyre kind of like begruding brothers

could kill a man in their sleep and has

loves being dirty, mud is so much fun why doesnt everyone roll around in the mud more?

has also watched hunter from afar for years, hunter used to be sent out on overnight missions into the woods and stuff and eber would follow along and protect hunter so he could focus on his mission and not random forest creatures trying to kill him

Most of these are based on my dadrius series and stuff so if you enjoyed these hcs uou should go read my fics (KaztielCS118 on ao3!!! used to be Im_Basically_Shakespeare but i changed it recently)

[hayatoseyepatch]

*bursting into your asks as fast as I can* HELLO HI!!!!

Congratulations on your milestone 💫🫶 it's so so deserved!! Here's to many more milestones to come hehe

Could I perhaps ask for a match up for Windbreaker, Jujutsu Kaisen or Tokyo Revengers? (Whatever strikes your fancy I'm indecisive as heck)

My personality: I go by she/her pronouns and I'm so shy it almost hurts but once I know someone I'm the loudest yapper and never shut up. Generally I'd say I'm an introvert tho and prefer staying inside over going out (unless it's out into the forest - that's my fave place to be ever). I love to crochet and to bake next to chilling with my dog hehe

Tropes: I really enjoy the friends to lovers or love at first sight tropes. Cheesy, I know but I'm a hopeless romantic and endlessly devoted to my love

My type: I look for a partner that's loyal. That's probably my most important factor next to reliability. When it comes for looks I like my men either big and beefy or smol and sweet (especially if they're soggy and need some love. I got lots to give) and I like my women mean 🫣 that being said, I don't care for gender. Men, women and everything in between is perfectly fine as long as the connection is there

My faves: Wbk: Sakura, Choji & Kiryu , TR: Benkei, Yuzuha & Shinichiro , Jjk: Toji, Mahito & Shoko

Icks: I dont like cheaters or people who need to party every single day of their life bc im more chill and just not about that life. As for characters per se I'd say a nono is Endo (wbk) and Kisaki (tr)

I think that's it? Yeah I think so 🥹🥹 i'm terribly sorry if i forgot anything and please don't feel pressured to match me with anyone!!

Luma!! Ahh thank you so much for your kind words I’ll SOB AT YOU! I’m so happy we became moots you’re literally the most talented, sweetest, funniest person ever! (Okay enough of the sap onto the match up.) Like I said in my post we’re moots so you get two!!

First up is Kiryu Mitsuki from Wind Breaker!

⤜♡→ It doesn’t get better for a friends to lovers than Kiryu.

⤜♡→ The both of you much rather preferred the quiet to the loud bustling Bofurin gatherings. Often sticking to the back of the room, him scrolling mindlessly through his phone, one arm wrapped around you as you both shared a headphone to watch tiktoks together.

⤜♡→ He had initially approached you for the first time in the classroom where you both met. Seeing someone so beautiful sat all by herself was such a shame in his mind. He offered you that gentle smile as he asked if the spot next to you was taken. Kiryu couldn’t help but let his eyes wander over you constantly seeking you out in a crowd whenever you both were at Furin.

⤜♡→ You both had initially bonded over quiet teasing of Tsugeura in your quiet corner of the classroom, often exchanging text messages teasing the poor orange haired extrovert.

⤜♡→ Your friendship only developed from there it was a rare occasion for you both to not be seen without the other. So much so that the others we're fully under the impression you both were together long before you started dating.

Sakura's cheeks were always a constant shade of pink whenever in you and Kiryu's presence. Kiryu was very comfortable with physical touch his body always seeking out your won whenever you both were together. Whether it was his cheek resting atop your head, or his hand playing with your fingers, he loved feeling you against him.

Suo chuckles,, his signature mischievous grin dawning his features, loving nothing more than to tease his friends and hopefully push you both to confess. "Oh would you look at that." He grins leaning across the booth you were sat in, fingers intertwined delicately under his chin as he looked at you both. "It seems you both have set off Sakura's love detector yet again. "Come on Sakura, it's rude to intrude on a date, we'll be going now. See you both later.~" He sing songs, dragging a flustered Sakura away from you both, grin on his face.

Kiryu snorts into his mug, eyes turning to yours now that it was just the two of you left at the table. "So, angel, when are we gonna tell him he can stop trying to play his little game of matchmaker now that we've been dating for three months?" He snorts, leaning over to bump his nose with yours in a pseudo-kiss. His eyes light up at the grin you send back in his direction. Swearing he fell more in love with you as you returned his grin, leaning forward to give him a proper kiss, pulling away to smirk. "Let him figure it out on his own, let's see how long he keeps it going before he realizes."

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Next up Is Kakucho from Tokyo Revengers!

⤜♡→ Kakucho has been through the ringer. He has a kind heart and so much love to give and I think you are the perfect candidate for all of his love and affection!

⤜♡→ Kakucho is a hopeless romantic, prizing building his friendships before relationships. He can only truly picture himself being with someone he has built a deep connection with before entering a relationship.

⤜♡→ The orphanage where he was raised was outside of city limits, and after years of being in gangs, I think Kakucho appreciates the serenity of nature. So with your favorite place being the forest, he often will set up a nice picnic for you both to enjoy the scenery and each other’s company.

⤜♡→ Kakucho is also quiet and a bit shy at first, the both of you gravitating toward each other with being more reserved at first. But melting into a beautiful relationship filled with love and laughter once you both opened up.

⤜♡→ If you ever are having a bad day and need some cheering up, Kakucho is your guy! He worships the ground you walk on and could spend hours divulging in all the things he loves about you. He will stop at nothing until you see yourself the way that he sees you.

Kakucho hums gently, his nose buried in the crook of your neck, gently swaying you both as he watches you bake, relishing in your warmth. He blinks, pulled from his trance as you offer him a finger dipped in the batter from the brownies you were prepping, Taking your finger into his mouth, he hums in delight from the sweet chocolaty confection. He smiles softly when you look up at him with those eyes he falls more in love with each day. “So Cho how does it taste?” His hands settle on your waist, turning you in his embrace, head dipping down low to press his lips against your own.

His hand cups the back of your neck as he deepens the kiss, his tongue finding its way into your mouth. The warm wet muscles dances with your own for a while, before he separates, string of saliva still connecting your lips for a moment before it snaps. “I dunno, honey, you tell me how it tastes.” He grins, kissing you once more as he chuckles thinking you looked nothing short of adorable with your pink cheeks and kiss-swollen lips. “It was delicious baby, I can't wait to pack them up in our basket for our date later.” He smiles wrapping his arms around you once more. Kakucho had spent most of his young life without a place to call his own after he lost his parents. But right here and now as he held you in his arms, he knew he had found his home. And that was anywhere where he could be with you. (a/n: I hope this was okay I haven't written for TR in YEARS, but this was just screaming at me and I needed to write it.)

[cyber-viper]

Can I please request a TWST matchup! My birthday is February 6th! I am veryyy outgoing. I make friends really easy and overall I’m a people pleaser. I do get very anxious and overwhelmed easily, which can cause panic attacks. I dont like sports, but I do like studying and my grades are something I take pride in. I overwork myself a lot and I make myself crumble. I thrive in environments where I get to help people. I tend to fall for possessive people because it makes me feel like someone actually likes me, even though they’re toxic. I get a long with people pretty easily though a lot of people have taken advantage of me because I’m naive and overly kind and I do anything in my power to make sure that people like me. I crave validation so I love being praised and takes care of, it makes me feel like I’ve done something right. I really enjoy video games and puzzles cause they challenge my brain. Its very easy to get me to do anything- just tell me “if you do _____ then I’ll be so proud of you.” And I’ll do it-. I am a little chubby with stretch marks and surgical scars. I’m very insecure in my body and I would like someone who would hold me close and let the world fall away. I love the idea of someone rough and tough getting soft and snuggling with me. I have some sensory issues that can cause panic attacks, like loud places/crowds. I prefer someone quiet where I can cuddle with someone or just be in my SO’s presence. I crochet and I recently finished making a blanket! I aspire to be a botanist or a horticulturist because I love plants and gardening! Thank you!!!

@sleepy-kat14 I match you with Jack Howl!

Jack is very attentive and observant so he will learn any sign of stress you show and when you're anxious he will learn how to help you and calm you down from your panic attacks.

He really admires your hard work and good grades and will compliment you for your dedication. Jack will also look after you and take car of you so that you don't self destruct from overworking yourself with studying.

He would respect your distaste for sports but would probably ask you to go for jogs or at least walks with him to keep yourself healthy but also to spend time together.

Jack might get a little protective or even possessive of you as his mate since he's a wolf beastman, but it wouldn't turn toxic since he would respect your independence and would trust you fully as well.

With his strong sense of justice as well as his protectiveness over his partner, Jack would look out for you and stand up against anyone trying to take advantage of your kindness or naivety.

Might take a while for affectionate praise as your boyfriend but easily verbalizes when he admires others and will bluntly tell you if he's proud of you or if he thinks you're doing well in something.

Again it might take time for him to get over his tsundere tendencies but at least in private Jack would love physical affection and cuddling with you.

Jack will get so excited to hear about your interest in botany and would love to take care of plants/cactus together and garden together. 

A/N: I am so sorry this is soooo late D: I really hope you like your match up. If you are dissatisfied or need clarification for anything I wrote please let me know. I appreciate your request so much <333

[northstarwomenblog]

Why hello there! Here's some questions from the fictionkin meme:

❔ - How did you figure out you kinned this character?

🤝 - What's your relationship with this kintype (ie spiritual, psychological, etc)?

👕 - What sort of clothing do you associate with this kin?

💥 - What skills or abilities did this kin have, if any, that you can't do now but wish you could? (ie superpowers, languages you don't speak, skills you don't currently have, etc)

🔮 - Have you ever predicted something about your source material before it happened based on kin feelings? (For example, having a kin memory that lines up with something that happens in your source before you ever knew about it)

👥 - Do you have any canonmates for this kin, and/or are you interested in finding canonmates?

thank you for sending this ask!!!!!!!!!!

❔ - i figured out i was starlo kin cause of. well its a really long story BUT the short of it is i finished playing undertale yellow and he was my favorite and my friends started joking about killing him in their runs to give me psychic damage and it made me feel personally attacked for some indescribable reason and i ended up ranting about it hours after they had stopped and then they were like "hey you might be fictionkin" and i was like "oh that would. make so much sense." and then that night as i was falling asleep i re-experienced a memory of the part of the pacifist route where ceroba flung me against the wall so hard that i passed out when i was trying to stop her from fighting clover. and that basically solidified it for me.

🤝 - uhhhh mostly just neurodivergent if im gonna be honest. so mental/psychological i think?? i dunno, im still very new to this stuff. i talk about it like it is a past life even though i dont believe in past lives, and im pretty sure its just because i am extremely neurodivergent that i kin starlo.

👕 - COWBOYS!!!!!!!! i get so much happiness from wearing the blue scarf i crocheted recently cause it reminds me of my blue bandana i wore! also overalls any generally any farm-like clothing. makes me so happy and like i am in the right body :D

💥 - magic, like every monster!!! it feels so incredibly weird to not have magic and not be able to summon a magic floating gun wherever i want or to just sit still and summon a small, harmless bullet to juggle around in my hands when i get bored.

🔮 - not really cause i didnt kin starlo until after i completed the pacifist route, and any other memory i got came after i finished that route, unfortunately. unless in canon i was in fact transmasc. if it gets confirmed that i was transmasc in canon then that would be one thing cause the game is so new that i wouldnt be surprised if anything new gets confirmed about me lol.

👥 - yes!!!!!!!!!!! i have several sourcemates and i have one canonmate!!! my beloved friend @yellowclovers who found out he was clover kin literally minutes after i found out i was starlo kin. and then turns out we end up having memories that line up with each other. cause he remembers having awoken after the ut pacifist route and when going out to search for one of their friends, they found out via martlet that i had died and that ceroba was also still dead. which lines up with my memories cause i come from flawed pacifist in which i died not long after wishing clover good riddance. we are still very good friends though and i forgive him for everything now that i played the game myself and understand the pressure they were put under. it wasnt really their fault, after all, as much as it sucked.

i would also love more canonmates,,,,, especially a canonmate ceroba. i know a fictionkin ceroba but she does have enough memories for me to confirm if shes a canonmate or simply a sourcemate. though i suppose it would be bad to wish to have a canonmate ceroba because she literally died in my canon so i mean.

ANYWAYS!!!!!!!! thank you for sending in an ask!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i really appreciate it :D

[itsfairly]

i dont do selfship stuff but i like to think that me and kento would tease each other about having very grandparent hobbies. he wants to do nothing but read and i knit/crochet whenever i have the chance, so we end up pretty silent at times.

if anything, some music playing in the background (i imagine something like oldies, jazz, r&b, something soothing) while him and i are completely quiet on the couch. Him, immersed in his reading with his head resting on his elbow, adjusting his reading glasses here and there; I, mouthing along to the music as with yarn looped around my finger and stitching it into a pattern i found a while ago.

its tranquil, like a little bubble. maybe cars are passing by, maybe people are talking too loud in the street, but overall, the sounds cant really seem to make it in.

looking up at him as i rest my cheek against the couch, thinking how pretty he looks with that slightly furrowed expression that he always has as he reads. its funny. we're doing our own thing, to each their own, but we're also together. it was easy to feel comfortable in the silence with him.

im the type of person to bother others every once in a while, so its only natural for me to gently poke his cheek or push the yarn ball in his direction to get his attention. once he turns to look at me, putting his book down with his eyebrows raised to silently ask what happened, i would just shrug nothing much, just wanted to annoy you a bit.

and even if he went back to reading like nothing happened, because nothing did really, his expression relaxed and his lips curled up ever so slightly. and as his hand comes down on my thigh, its clear as day that he understood what i meant, just a bit of attention but not too much that it would interrupt our hobbies. it was as if he said then ill give you that same attention back.

sure, to others it may be boring, but i think the idea of being alone with him while doing our stereotypically old people hobbies is very us. Just him and me, surrounded by books and yarn.

[nightmare-dreamt]

Hi! Could i get a matchup? For Tokyo Ghoul and Assassination classroom?

Pronouns: any

Attracted to: males

Zodiac: Aries if important

Appearance: long dark/almost black hair, same color eyes. I’m pretty lean and average height, always dress in dark clothing or neutral shades. Very into formal clothes, always dress like i have somewhere to go(i dont)

Personality: when meeting someone for the first time, I’m all awkward smiles, avoiding eye contact, and shy politeness. Ermm i tend to get attached to people to continue to look past that and continue talking to me. Anyways after being friends for a while, i get so much louder and more talkative, i like to annoy/tease my friends but will stop when they tell me to. Sarcastic, protective, loyal, and i also tend to make A LOT of jokes…sometimes during bad times. On the other hand, i can be quite irritable, gets overstimulated by my surroundings easily, awful memory, no motivation to do simple tasks at times, sensitive, sometimes does not know when to shut up

Likes: all forms of art, fiction books, the night sky, quiet environments, rain, storms, loud music, spending time with people i care about, playing videogames, trying out new hobbies, having my own space once in a while. Love when people rant about their interests to me as well, like yes please keep talking

Dislikes: not doing anything for a long period of time, loud and crowded places, hot weather,

Hobbies: oh boy..drawing, writing, reading, tinkering with technology, coding, sculpting, 3d modeling, crocheting, storytelling. I also like collecting knives, rocks, figures, and toy cars :D

Matchup for Anon!

Aries and gemini are decently compatible, the relationship is very lively, exciting, and vibrant. From sources, I've read the Aries in the relationship lets the Gemini have their own freedom and space, and in retum the Gemini respects Aries and never leans too much on them. In the end, the two are well suited for each other and would make a great relationship, but be prepared there may be some bickering.

We all know him as being extremely talkative and social and it would make sense to act the same way around you, but when he took note of your quiet state, it intrigued him. He's someone who focus on the little things and notices when something he had talked about out of nowhere lands on his desk. To his surprise, after a couple of months of talking you became more talkative yourself, interacting more with him then before and he loved it, having an even bigger smile on his face.

When the two of you first met, his eyes noticed your clothing style and fell in love, enjoying the forming attire and the dark shades, always looking good on you. When the two of you went on. your first date, he couldn't take his eyes off of you, thinking you looked like a god/goddess. Definitely was shocked when seeing you out of the formal clothes for the first time, but he still loves you without them and thinks you look amazing.

Your guys first date together was at a museum that happened to be filled with art and all sorts of masterpieces. You guys spent hours there debriefing art, trying to figure out the meaning behind the work and what the artist was thinking when working on the piece. One time, the two of you made a joke about the Mona Lisa and created a whole alibrite plan, but that's something neither of you would share with anyone but each other.

Assasination Classroom: Hiroto Maehara

It's known that he's the typical playboy, going around and teasing his friends and other people, but when someone teased him back his face broke out into a fit of red. You were that person. It was one normal day when the ginger haired boy came over and started to flirt making teasing remarks, but he was not prepared for those remarks to be used against him. Now, when you're around him you make a flirty remark causing his face to break out in a blush and him to get annoyed wanting to be the one to do that to you.

His favorite thing about you is your personality, from how protective and loyal you are to those close to you and his favorite are the jokes. When there's a bad situation, it's always best to laugh and try to lighten the mood and he loves how open you are with that idea. It makes him laugh and smile when seeing your happiness.

When there was a storm, he usually ignored it and just relaxed playing video games or something but now with you in his life he looks at the storm differently. Whenever there is a storm, it's a sign for the two of you to plan a date that usually consists of a movie being watched or games being played for hours. When there isn't a storm, the two of you will go out at night and stargaze looking at all of the stars in the sky, talking about each of them.

[ailelie]

I'm a categorizer so I put these into categories. My thinking is two-fold:

If one doesn't work for you, try something from a different category.

If the items above don't appeal, think of something (or ask a friend to think of something for you) for you using the categories as a guide (e.g., don't want to go outside or blast music, maybe you can change your environment with some scented candles or moving your work space into a different room or buying/borrowing a new throw for your couch that is a color and texture you like, etc).

These are the categories that made sense to me. I'm sure others might think of different ones.

I hope someone else finds this as helpful as I have.

Physical Self-Care: Basic tasks for cleanliness and nourishment

shower. not a bath, a shower. use water as hot or cold as u like. u dont even need to wash. just get in under the water and let it run over you for a while. sit on the floor if you gotta.

put on clean, comfortable clothes.

drink cold water. use ice. if u want, add some mint or lemon for an extra boost.

Little Luxuries: Treat yourself to some little luxury that makes you feel soft, safe, cute, or utterly you.

moisturize everything. use whatever lotion u like. unscented? dollar store lotion? fancy ass 48 hour lotion that makes u smell like a field of wildflowers? use whatever you want, and use it all over.

put on ur favorite underwear. cute black lacy panties? those ridiculous boxers u bought last christmas with candy cane hearts on the butt? put em on.

Claim a Victory: Accomplish a small task that makes you feel competent, talented, creative, and/or productive

clean something. doesn’t have to be anything big. organize one drawer of ur desk. wash five dirty dishes. do a load of laundry. scrub the bathroom sink.

make food. don’t just grab a granola bar to munch. take the time and make food. even if it’s ramen. add something special to it, like a hard boiled egg or some veggies. prepare food, it tastes way better, and you’ll feel like you accomplished something.

make something. write a short story or a poem, draw a picture, color a picture, fold origami, crochet or knit, sculpt something out of clay, anything artistic. even if you don’t think you’re good at it.

Connect with Others: Remind yourself that you are real and loved by reaching out to family, friends, pets, or even strangers and beloved plushies

call someone. call a loved one, a friend, a family member, call a chat service if you have no one else to call. talk to a stranger on the street. have a conversation and listen to someone’s voice. if you can’t, text or email or whatever, just have some social interaction with another person. even if you don’t say much, listen to them.

cuddle your pets if you have them/can cuddle them. take pictures of them. talk to them. tell them how u feel, about your favorite movie, a new game coming out.

Change the Scene: Find a way to change your environment, whether that means going out or bringing something (e.g., music, scented candles, etc) in.

blast music. listen to something upbeat and dancey and loud, something that’s got lots of energy. sing to it, dance to it, even if you suck at both.

go outside. take a walk. sit in the grass. look at the clouds. smell flowers. put your hands in the dirt and feel the soil against your skin.

depression tips™

shower. not a bath, a shower. use water as hot or cold as u like. u dont even need to wash. just get in under the water and let it run over you for a while. sit on the floor if you gotta.

moisturize everything. use whatever lotion u like. unscented? dollar store lotion? fancy ass 48 hour lotion that makes u smell like a field of wildflowers? use whatever you want, and use it all over. 

put on clean, comfortable clothes. 

put on ur favorite underwear. cute black lacy panties? those ridiculous boxers u bought last christmas with candy cane hearts on the butt? put em on.

drink cold water. use ice. if u want, add some mint or lemon for an extra boost.

clean something. doesn’t have to be anything big. organize one drawer of ur desk. wash five dirty dishes. do a load of laundry. scrub the bathroom sink. 

blast music. listen to something upbeat and dancey and loud, something that’s got lots of energy. sing to it, dance to it, even if you suck at both.

make food. don’t just grab a granola bar to munch. take the time and make food. even if it’s ramen. add something special to it, like a hard boiled egg or some veggies. prepare food, it tastes way better, and you’ll feel like you accomplished something. 

make something. write a short story or a poem, draw a picture, color a picture, fold origami, crochet or knit, sculpt something out of clay, anything artistic. even if you don’t think you’re good at it.

go outside. take a walk. sit in the grass. look at the clouds. smell flowers. put your hands in the dirt and feel the soil against your skin.

call someone. call a loved one, a friend, a family member, call a chat service if you have no one else to call. talk to a stranger on the street. have a conversation and listen to someone’s voice. if you can’t, text or email or whatever, just have some social interaction with another person. even if you don’t say much, listen to them.

cuddle your pets if you have them/can cuddle them. take pictures of them. talk to them. tell them how u feel, about your favorite movie, a new game coming out.

[nailgunstigmata]

some random assumptions: your favorite color is pink or purple, you like to knit or crochet or sew, and you like animals more than children. curious if any of those are right...

ohh im not sure if I have a favorite color to be honest but I do rlly like purple!! and Ive done a bit of cross stitch which is almost sewing I think dhskdh but the last one is definitely on point <3 (not that I have anything against children but they scare me. what if I curse on accident? what if I dont have games on my phone)

ty for sending these anon its rlly interesting to hear what kind of vibe I give off hehe

[authorofdragons]

you know what? lifes shit. come make something with me

So for context, these are my comfort dolls I crocheted over a year ago: Bonehill and Zerako.

theyre also the main characters of my webcomic Skull & Pyro but you dont gotta worry about that rn all you gotta know is that theyre husbands. (if you wanna worry about it its ok go check out my pinned post)

So I love making them minature things and I'm a horrible little christmas goblin so I wanna make them a mini christmas tree (and a whole scene to boot but lets start with a tree).

Here you can see the leaves fighting against their creator as I bring them into this wretched world (aka my loops kept falling off my hook). I went off of The Lazy Hobbyhopper's pattern here. Base of the tree is made with bulky green yarn I found in a bin and then worsted weight white yarn to make the leaves look smaller to make sure the green would be seen underneath. I Also skipped every other row when making the leaves to further achieve this.

Next I need a sturdy interior so the tree is firm for decorating. There could be better materials for this but my brain will use any and everything I have on hand before it'll buy new materials so my grubby lil hands grabbed some cardstock and made it a cone

Next for the trunk I used the left over cardstock to make a tube and then grabbed a old CVS paper bag to give it trunk texture and color. The final touches are with crayola marker because thats just the crisis situation we're dealing with here.

Now the base of the tree is made, rad, cool, looks neat.

Ignore the fact that my camera decided my walker is the star of the photo this is what happens when I screenshot my videos.

We need a topper and I refuse to make a normal star bc my boys are agents of chaos so I asked my mom what it should be and she suggested a mushroom gnome. She knows me well.

I make a lot of these little guys purely bc my brain eel has decided they are The Shit right now. This is my own pattern that is minimal sewing because I Hate Sewing Extra Shit it just makes more steps in my mind which makes the brain eel angery. So I bullshit stitches and run with it. If I can learn to translate the horrors that are my patterns into words, maybe one day Ill share it. Unfortunately the horrors are winning

Now for ornaments and lights. I could crochet those but brain eel doesn't want to so Target it is.

Now on with the lights, these fairy lights were bright as fuck and with the white leaves I felt assaulted with color ASDFJFLGK like listen I love color but Im used to green trees and didn't realize the frosted leaves would just Become The Entire Light Spectrum

they are entranced.

So I just swapped the fairy lights with my taco lights that were on my own mini tree and honestly, that fits better in every way given Zerako notoriously loves tacos and its much less stimulating. And the fairy lights look great on my tree.

Of course I need cheesy couples photos of them putting the tree up because it Is their tree, they deserve this moment.

you're doing great boys (they are not doing anything)

NOW for ordaments. Percieve them putting on the ordaments.

Now pretend you never perceived them (for I am doing the rest).

All together it looks great!! The colorful ordaments really help balance the plain yellow/white lights.

I adore how this turned out. Life is still shit but my boys have their own tree so I'll live with it 💚 I got more christmas crafts planned for these two so follow me for more mild serotnin inducers.

Hope life's a little less shit for you today 💙

[ye-local-simp]

Hi! I saw your TWST match-up event and I was hoping to join in?(if not, that's cool too)

Physical apperence:

I'm 5"3 with brown almond-shaped eyes, and shoulder length hair(dyed black to blonde ombre) thats trummed into a wolf-cut looking style. I have a fairly athletic build and have a slight hourglass figure. I also tan really easily so I'm usually some variation of tan/brown.

The way I look can be "deciving". Sense I enjoy dressing in curious aesthetics and styles(ex. Tech wear, dark/light academia, cottage core, cityscape aesthetic), I can have a different vibe where ever I go. And that only get more complicated when I choose to crosssdress. I'm female and usually present as such, but I enjoy having masc-presenting looks or just straight up cross-dressing.

Personality:

When first meeting me, I do my best to be as curtious and polite as I can. Though, that usually comes across as looking very quiet/stoic and formal. Once I'm comfortable with someone and/or with friends, I become much more lively and bubbly. I like trying to make other laugh through jokes, pick-up lines, and small pranks(like spooking them from a door or something). Sociability-wise, I'm a generally more introverted. Most the time, I'm happy to just spend time by myself or with a few close friends. However, if I'm at a party or with the right crowd, I can quickly become loud and friendly around people.

With an S/O, I'm very patient and devoted to them. However, that's only because it's hard for me to become attached to someone enough to see them as a partner. My love languages are quality time, physical touch, and I'm very big on gift giving. Even with friends, I like making them small trinkets, buying little things for them, and making food for those I'm close to. Interests/hobbies:Most of my hobbies are art-bases and I have quite a few: drawing, writing, singing, playing intruments(piano, flute, and lyre), crocheting, sculpting, cooking, baking, fashion, and dance(mainly ballet) just to give you a few examples. Aside from art, I also enjoy sports(figure skating, jogging, and hiking) reading, along with some "uncommon" hobbies. My more strangle hobbies include: collecting animal skulls and bugs, collecting feathers, and tarot readings. My interests are a bit more varied, I love learning about the fine arts(orchestra, theater, ballet, opera, etc.), zoology(nature and biology in general), worldwide mythology, and music from around the world. Of course I also love anime and manga, as well as, horror movies and historical dramas.

Friend(s) input:

First impression-

"You looked kinda scary and put together"

"Slutty big-sister/college student vibe"

Getting to know me-

"You're very creative and bubbly. Generally pretty chill."

"Love-intrest character, trophy-wife"

Thank you if you read all that, and take as much time as you need. Or if you choose to drop this one, that's fine too! Have a good day/evening! :>

I am going to pair you up with...

Vil!!!

-Vil usually doesn't really have anything against people who didn't fit into the society's expectations of a body but in the relationship he does try to give you that "perfect look", even though he doesn't want to seem toxic. But since you have an athletic build and a love for sports, he always makes sure you tag along in his runs, since he knows you are capable of catching up to him.

-As a model, he has to look at different aesthetics and is surprised when you dress up as all of them. Usually people settle with one or two, but you try to dress up as all which makes you unique in a good way. About crossdressing, he doesn't really mind it as long as dont ruin youself to look masculine as you look masculine even with makeup and good skincare.

-Your first impressions are probably what made him think you were perfect for him since he always likes people who are polite but when your liveliness started to show, he asked you to only keep your bubbliness with close friends or just him since he wants you both to look like a perfect and formal couple, even though the relationship is hidden away from his fans and such.But this doesn't mean he wasn't open to protect you from them.

-Lastly is that, if you have a hobby or interest, he instantly loves you even more no matter what it is(of course he will have a problem if it ruins your appearance). It just spares him from feeling pitiful or working hard for you to enjoy something. If he sees you enjoy something, he's happy. But even if you don't have an interests, he will help you find something in his free time.

-In the general relationship, he is sweet, kind and polite with you and as much as he has these old fashioned ideas of what a body should look like, he isn't old fashioned with his partner or women or pretty anything else.

-He is also big with words and affirmation/ physical touch. Even though he is a model and already recieves compliments and hugs on a daily basis, it is different when its with you. If you call him beautiful he replies with a compliment back(believe it or not) and you both will always do pampering sessions and skincare/haircare together.

-The only problems in the relationship is that he may seem too controlling of you since he does want people to look perfect and he is always super busy with his modelling gig so you see him a lot less. On school days, it is in the mornings and evening till night but there are some days where his schedule is completely free though, not to worry.

[takasgf]

small piece of writing🎖💗🎠

I dont usually write, so i hope that this isnt terrible! I wanted to write something cute. Please excuse any mistakes O_o I'm trying my best!!

♡

All they could hear was the sound of their shoes hitting the sand in a regular rhythm, as the waves of the sea were going back and forth, gently washing their footprints off the shore. Unlike the sunny skies that once revealed the seashells' bright sparkle, right now a dark blue cloud projected its shadow onto the ground.

Frogeru and Kiyotaka were going on a walk along the beach. Despite the unusual weather, Frog insisted on them paying a quick visit to their favourite place. They were holding hands tightly and she was carrying a colorful crocheted bag over her shoulder.

- Frogeru, are you cold? There's more wind than I have anticipated. May I lend you my jacket?

- It's just some wind, man. If you're going to give me that, wouldn't YOU be cold then? I'm fine. I enjoy the wind!

  Frog let go of Kiyotaka's hand and started to spin around, doing a few jumps up in the air, while exclaiming happily.

- I believe you! Still, I'm unable to understand why are we here right now, exactly. Were you that excited to see the ocean again that we couldn't have waited for a better, sunnier day?

- I suppose you can also say that... I wanted to give something to you!

She took a floral sheet out of her bag and laid it softly on the ground. As they sat down, she placed a bag of pretzels and two bottles of water on the sheet. For a few seconds, they stared at eachother without saying anything. The wind kept blowing strands of Frogeru's hair into her direction. Kiyotaka tried his best to keep his girlfriend's hair out of her face, but his inevitable failure only made her laugh at the situation. They both looked incredibly silly.

- Well, this is quite difficult..! he opened a bottle of water and took a sip. How can you enjoy this type of weather?!

- It's not that bad! It doesn't bother me at all.

Frog's smile shined brightly, as the wind continued to lightly move strands of her hair. Taka took Frogeru's hand once again and held it against his cheek. She couldn't help but giggle at her boyfriend's sweet gesture. No matter the location or state of weather, they always found ways to enjoy the time spent together.

- I love you, dude! Thanks for accepting to come here with me.

- There's absolutely no problem, my dear Froggy. Haha, I love you more!

- "I love you! No, I love you more! No!! I love you more! No!!!" was funny the first time, but don't you think it's kind of an overused trope in media? You know, it seems that the unusually expressive affection some couples have for eachother is easily the target for these kind of jokes during mainstream television shows and movies...

- I.. uh..!

- HA! Got tricked again! I love YOU more! Ehehehe! Frogeru waved her hands in a goofy motion, as a way of celebrating a new, tiny prank.

- Oh! I should've noticed your change in tone earlier and realised you weren't being serious... Hahaha! You always know how to trick me. No, I love YOU more!

Kiyotaka got closer to Frogeru and gave her a warm hug. The girl reached for her bag and took out a small, heart shaped box. Without saying a word, she opened the box and revealed a shiny, small ring inside of it. Her sweet smile warmed up Kiyotaka's heart.

- Woah! A gift! And what a gift! Dear, this is so wonderful... You spent all this money on jewelry for me.. I can't believe it! Your generosity is out of this world.

Taka kissed Frogeru softly on the cheek and continued to thank her for the gift, while she was trying her best not to laugh.

- Do you like it? Does it look nice on your hand? Frogeru had the widest grin on her face, patiently waiting for the moment of realisation.

- I love it! I wouldn't consider myself a "jewelry person", but this ring is quite beautiful! Are these gold inscriptions of my initials..? How much have you spent on this?!

- Don't worry about it, angel. You deserve the most special of things. I would gift you the entire moon, the sun and the stars, if I could. I love you more than anything in this world and I want us to be together for as long as possible. You mean everything to me, you know? Frogeru held both of Kiyotaka's hands and looked at him, as her eyes sparkled - a few tiny tears rolled off her face.

- A-Ah! You are everything to me as well! I can't even imagine who would I be now if it wasn't for you... I want to be with you for as long as I'm alive. I absolutely can't see myself living without you! I... Taka remembered the ring on his finger. He looked at it very closely, inspecting each and every centimeter of material. He felt the same thing he felt when he realised he loved Frogeru - the butterflies in his stomach began their coordinated flight once again. ...Dear?? Is this.. IS THIS A PROPOSAL ??!

Frogeru started laughing loudly. Her tears were still flowing, but that didn't seem to stop her excitement.

- Took you long enough, dummy! Hehe, you should have seen your face! I totally expected this, but the consistency of your reactions is always a surprise. So! What do you say? Frog put her arms on her hips, proudly.

- ... F-Frogeru.. he couldn't stop his tears. He hugged his girlfriend tightly and didn't let go for a few moments. He couldn't say anything else - he only shook his head as a way of expressing his "YES!"

- Haha... You're too adorable, dude... she gave him a pat on the head and kissed his forehead.

They held eachother closely and looked at the ocean. The wind had finally stopped blowing. Frogeru opened the bag of pretzels and put one in Taka's mouth.

- I hope they're not too salty for your taste. I used to eat a lot of those when I was younger. My cousin sent them to me, he somehow found a bag in an small store in his town. Didn't know they still sell them...

Kiyotaka's eyes softened everytime he heard his beloved talk. The pretzels were good, but the comfort of his girlfriend being part of his life was more important in that moment. They were going to be together, forever. That thought made him more happy than he could ever express with his words.

- I love you, Froggy...

♡

Ayy, thanks for reading :> It was fun! Oh yeah, i wanted to write this because im planning their wedding this summer! Nothing too special, I'll just post some drawings, but I wanted them to propose first. I hope it wasnt too bad LOL

[fire-but-ashes-too]

thank youuuu!!

i think i did one with one of my OCs over here (please check it out im really proud of it eheh) but never done this for myself!

*cracks knuckles* here we goooo

are you named after anyone?

yes and no, i just so coincidentially happen to be named after my maternal great grandmother, tho it wasn't intended (at least, not that i know of)

when's the last time you cried?

a few nights ago after i woke up from a nightmare where i had a spider on my feet biting me. dont ask. i panicked.

do you have kids?

nope and i dont intend on having any.

do you use sarcasm?

every day. as much as i can. my beloved sarcasm <3

what's the first thing you notice about people?

not the first thing i notice probably, but the one i remember more vividly, is the voice. i have a sound memory (is that how you call it? i cant remember) so i do this thing sometimes when im bored where i say the same sentence in my head over and over, each time in a different person's voice.

what's your eye color?

very boring brown. my right eye has slightly more greenish tones in it tho.

scary movies or happy endings?

uhmmmmm nice question id also like to know. no idea, it varies from time to time, as long as it's good idc. (rewatching rw&rb for the second time atm hehe)(why did i notice just now that in the red room scene the portrait behind alex while he's waiting for henry is ALEXANDER HAMILTON??? my internal theatre kid is screaming)

any special talents?

I HAVE DOUBLE JOINTED FINGERS. MY THUMB CAN GO UP AND DOWN AND APPARENTLY ITS SCARY BUT ITS SO FUN. and i can bend my fingers more than normal.

i also have a very quick memory and can loop my tongue.

where were you born?

here where i live, in verona :)

what are your hobbies?

an infinite moltitude of things. too many to count.

painting, drawing, writing (duh), reading, doing absolutely nothing, crocheting, doing clay stuff, baking/cooking, making plans on how to jump out of a winfdow in case lessons get too boring, learning progressively concerning and detailed facts about literally anything, acting and watching musicals. that's all that comes to mind rn.

do you have any pets?

none sadly, i've wanted a cat for a very long time, then a rabbit, a hamster, a fish, etc. my parents were always either allergic or against having a pet so i never had one.

any sport you play/played?

im an aerialst! i do aerial silks and aerial hoop and i like to think im pretty good at it (modesty aside its probably the first sport i've ever really been great at so.. yeah.)

when i was little i tred volleyball (a disaster), gymnastics (again, a failure), swimming (not bad but i didn't like it that much), skiing (i only went on winter break tho, and i absolutely despised it, although i won a couple races) and... yeah that's all i've done more than a couple lessons at.

how tall are you?

1,60. short. i think.. 5.2? i use the metric system sorry haha

what's your favourite subject?

uhhhh probably history... yeah. it's the only subject that the more you go into it the more interesting it gets, and it doesnt really grow harder like maths you know.

what's your dream job?

definetly acting. the idea of telling stories by becoming part of the story feels so amazing to me.

the ultimate-dream™️ is acting in a film/series based on a book. the fact that someone views and pictures you as a fictional character, as a character people read about, and talked about... best thing ever.

that's it! thank you so much for reading this far :D

gently tagging @holdmyteaplease @the-chaotic-writer @alhyastarain @jaxypaxyhaxy @dancinginsepia @a-k-oblackhat @ember-writer @justremuslupininamask @ashwithapen @aspiringfictionwriter @yesireadbooks @guessillcallitart @mychemicalwhatever

15 Questions 15 Mutuals

@kaiarchives tagged me in this game that I haven't had the pleasure of seeing before, so that's exciting. The rules are: Answer the 15 questions and tag 15 of your mutuals.

1. Are you named after anyone?

No.

2. When was the last time you cried?

Last Sunday. I don't think it was for any particular reason, I just had a headache and was feeling down.

3. Do you have kids?

No.

4. What sports do you play/have played?

I played a bit of a football as a kid and a bit of volleyball for school. I also did range shooting in my tween years.

5. Do you use sarcasm?

Quite a lot. I've been trying to cut back and be a bit more genuine, but my habit for being sarcastic and my generally low moods have given me a bit of Resting Bitch Voice, so people don't always pick up on it.

6. What's the first thing you notice about people?

Facial shape I think. Before I learn someone's name I generally remember them by the shape of their jaw and cheeks.

7. What's your eye color?

Blue, but it's a kinda greyish blue.

8. Scary movies or Happy endings

I like scary movies with happy endings. Give me protagonists who face down with the worst of humanity or the nasties of the world and come out alive and swinging, if not a bit traumatized.

9. Any talents?

I'm told I have a way with words. In general I don't believe in talent in the "innate skill" way though.

10. Where were you born?

Oslo, Norway.

11. What are your hobbies?

Writing, reading, movies, video games (mostly strategy and roguelikes,) I used to sing in a choir and I kind of want to get back into that.

12. Do you have any pets?

No. Haven't really had the opportunity to, but I'd like to get a dog someday.

13. How tall are you?

178 cm, so... what, 5'10?

14. Favorite subject in school

Language and it's not close at all. Social Sciences as a second place I suppose.

15. Dream Job?

Author. Give me a way to live from writing and I'll churn out books at a brazen clip. It might drive me crazy, but it'll be worth it.

As for the tags: @frostedlemonwriter @shay-puppitty @longwuzhere @indigostudies @an-elegant-void @mjjune @marlenadutch @fire-but-ashes-too @meerawrites @sparrowrising @silverslipstream @floweryprosegarden @the-secondborn-of-seven @chishiio @a-had-matter

[carpexiem]

na(e)vi(s)

OO1 . . . ⇢ ˗ˏˋ [ ABT ME ]

~ xia / xi [call me whichever you like :D]

~ they / them prns

~ i am a minor 

~ likes/hobbies ! true crime, dancing, singing, crocheting, buzzfeed unsolved, anime, asian dramas, coding, angst, reading [currently reading the first book of the truly devious series as of 29/12,,, i’m in love-], kpop, krnb, kitchen nightmares [gordon ramsay ftw], angst and more lol

~ dislikes ! delulus, anyone who is queerphobic/racist/ageist etc, confrontational people, jumpscares [how ironic -_-], gore etc

~ groups i stan ! enhypen, p1harmony, got7, txt, drippin, golden child, gwsn, xdinary heroes, ateez, nct [as seen, i don’t stan many gg, but i do not have anything against them]

~ other artists i listen to ! junny, crush, colde, zion t, offonoff, justin park, iu, vincent blue, dpr live, dpr ian, grent perez, nikko!, gaeko, bambam (i love this dude so much hhhhh), dean, slchld, tyler the creator, ashnikko, chloe x halle, frank ocean, doja cat and many more

~ xtra ! i do seem a bit to...detailed/professional (idk how to call it tbh) when i text/write author’s notes. keyboard smashes will be very prominent in my a/n and writing :D

~ byf ! i am a minor pt. 2, dont expect nsfw talk here :), approachable (at least, i hope) so im open to random asks ig, i rant to myself alot (mental issues fr), i talk TOO MUCH about asian dramas (especially thai bls) if you don't like that, please don't judge. i use tone indicators just cos my anxiety makes me think that i come across as too harsh and blunt 🤣

~ dni ! -13 or 16+, nfsw blog, stan suju, mamamoo, [kim] woojin etc, literally yuta antis, toxic stans (respectfully)

OO2. . . ⇢ ˗ˏˋ [ GENRES ACCEPTED]

~ fluff (i cannot tell you how hard it is to write this...i somehow turn it into angst)

~ slice of life

~ angst (angst is life, life is angst)

~ fantasy

~ sci-fi

~ historic

OO3. . . ⇢ ˗ˏˋ [ ANONS ]

my first ever time having anons, and i am very excited!! the available anons are;;

~  🍯 anon

~  🐝 anon

~  🍪 anon

~  🍄 anon

~  🌙 anon

~  🍞 anon

ofc, if you'd like to have ur own custom anons feel free to do so, just send in an ask :D

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[ please note ! this is a secondary blog, so i cannot reply to comments, only with my main blog- this is an occasional occurrence, as i don't really want my main blog to be known (if you do, then consider yourself part of the secret squad) !! i hope you understand <3]

[the-dumb-smart-friend]

depression tips

shower. not a bath, a shower. use water as hot or cold as u like. u dont even need to wash. just get in under the water and let it run over you for a while. sit on the floor if you gotta.

moisturize everything. use whatever lotion u like. unscented? dollar store lotion? fancy ass 48 hour lotion that makes u smell like a field of wildflowers? use whatever you want, and use it all over.

put on clean, comfortable clothes.

put on ur favorite underwear. cute black lacy panties? those ridiculous boxers u bought last christmas with candy cane hearts on the butt? put em on.

drink cold water. use ice. if u want, add some mint or lemon for an extra boost.

clean something. doesn’t have to be anything big. organize one drawer of ur desk. wash five dirty dishes. do a load of laundry. scrub the bathroom sink.

blast music. listen to something upbeat and dancey and loud, something that’s got lots of energy. sing to it, dance to it, even if you suck at both.

make food. don’t just grab a granola bar to munch. take the time and make food. even if it’s ramen. add something special to it, like a hard boiled egg or some veggies. prepare food, it tastes way better, and you’ll feel like you accomplished something.

make something. write a short story or a poem, draw a picture, color a picture, fold origami, crochet or knit, sculpt something out of clay, anything artistic. even if you don’t think you’re good at it.

go outside. take a walk. sit in the grass. look at the clouds. smell flowers. put your hands in the dirt and feel the soil against your skin.

call someone. call a loved one, a friend, a family member, call a chat service if you have no one else to call. talk to a stranger on the street. have a conversation and listen to someone’s voice. if you can’t, text or email or whatever, just have some social interaction with another person. even if you don’t say much, listen to them.

cuddle your pets if you have them/can cuddle them. take pictures of them. talk to them. tell them how u feel, about your favorite movie, a new game coming out.

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Thank you?